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Hello, I am a super busy professional. I travel almost weekly within Washington, but always have weekends off. I practice complete honesty in my life and will do the same here. I am divorced and not looking for a future wife. I am looking for an intelligent, adventurous, nerdy, punk rock-loving woman to share conversation, fun, and who knows what else? I am a father to four wonderful, grown children. I am a psychotherapist, now doing government work. I am a former college instructor. I am a writer of both non-fiction and fiction. Currently working on a novel. I don't need anyone to complete me. I am whole just the way I am. I love having a partner-in-crime, however, so let's see where this goes! y ideal partner will have most of these qualities: *I cannot stress enough my need for intelligent conversation *you are probably a busy professional, maybe in healthcare *you want to spend time with me -- but you don't NEED to spend all of your time with me *you are probably outspoken and confident *you must have an unrestrained sense of humor -- I work in healthcare so my humor can and does go very dark sometimes *you need your alone time and time with friends, apart from me *you probably have beautiful tattoos *it is likely that your hair color has changed multiple times in the past year *a lust for knowledge is a huge bonus *you are loyal to all those you care about * you value honesty and integrity above most other things *even if you are cautious at first (and I totally get that, I am) you are able to open your whole heart if you enter a monogamous and committed relationship. When I go all-in, I am all-in. *and, for the sake of all that is holy, please be from Washington. I am not into super long distance communication where we never see each other. So that's me and who I would like to be contacted by. Looking for fun and friends at first, then let the chemistry happen if it's going to happen. Let's meet for coffee or a drink first. Then maybe a walk. Once we decide we're not creeps, let's figure out the next step together. On any given weekend, depending on the week I've had, I may want to get out and be social, listen to live music, hit a few pubs. Or maybe walk or bike the Orting Trail. Or, sometimes, I will just want to curl up and watch Netflix and cuddle. Flexibility is key.

Leo

Heavyset

5' 10 (1.78 m)

Green

Caucasian

Divorced

Yes - Sometimes At Home

No

Hands

Visible Tattoo

Light Brown

Dog

No

Post-Punk

X

Hemingway

Holden Caulfield

No idea.

University Degree

Full-time

Medical / Health

Mental Health Program Administrator

With Kid(s)

Friends Come Over Occasionally

Yes - But Non Tobacco

Yes - Socially

Outcast

Observant

Family, Dining, Photography, Exercising, Reading, Learning, Music, Tv, Movies, Internet, Games, Theater, Travel, Cooking, Gardening, Playing Cards

Hanging Out With Friends, Staying At Home, The Movies, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum

Drinks or coffee in a quiet place.

Everything.

Friendly, Cool, Obscure, A Flirt

Atheist

Never

Very Liberal

Helping others. Fighting for the underdog.

Campy, Dry / Sarcastic, Goofy, Obscure

News, Documentaries, Dramas, Movies

Science Fiction, Horror, Thriller

Rock, Punk

News, Auto-biography, Biography, Classic, History, Music, Mystery, Philosophy, Reference, Satire, Science, Science Fiction

Going to small-venue punk shows. Staying in and binge-watching good tv or movies. Gardening. Working out.

Wit, Flirtatiousness, Boldness, Sensitivity, Empathy, Humor, Good Looks, Thoughtfullness, Intelligence

Intelligence, beautiful eyes, sensuality, affection, communication, the ability to open your heart and be vulnerable.

Friend, Date, Intimate, Committed